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Monthly Archives: February, 2012

Hoping to Adjust

Each week I watch my son through the two-way mirror at his gymnastics class. I watch him smile, have fun and try and get other people to smile. I watch him and hope… I hope the teacher doesn’t label him. I hope she sees his gentle soul. I hope she sees he is trying his (…) MORE »

This is My Voice: Hear Me or Don’t

Test.  Test.  Hello?  Are you listening?  Is anyone listening to me? I’ve realized that my emotions boil whenever I feel unheard.  Someone refuses to listen to me – especially family – and I go bonkers.  Knotted stomach, bulging veins, flailing arms, the works. Usually I can avoid a scene by simply saying “not now.”  I (…) MORE »

Busy Head

The thoughts in my head are a lot like the second side of “Abbey Road”: lots of promising, catchy, intriguing beginnings, none of which reach their full conclusions. Unfortunately, I don’t have a recording studio—or George Harrison, but that’s another story. My busy head is spectacular. It is an unwelcomed yet frequent companion of the (…) MORE »

Love Letter from You

Dear beloved one, I see you there, I feel your struggle. I know how hard you have been trying to be a good mother. As you have grown up, many conflicting messages have been presented to you by your culture about the proper way to care for children, and some of those messages have been (…) MORE »

Rock, Paper, Scissors – Girl, Woman, Mommy?

Last month I wrote about my fractured identity, all my roles I play in life.  This month I want to share a recent experience at work. I was tasked with a project that would both teach me the new tools at my newish job and help out someone in need.  I did it and I (…) MORE »

Laughed So Hard, Thought I’d Cry

You know what a mother needs sometimes? Well, yes, okay, vodka, but that isn’t what I’m going for here. Laughter. A sense of humor, people! There is so much stress in this job—seriously, deep-sea oil-rig workers got nothing on us—that it’s important to grab onto the hilarity whenever you can. In that spirit, I offer (…) MORE »

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